Thursday, January 13, 2011

Expectancy..To say the least

"You have to expect great things of yourself before you can do them!"

-Michael Jordan



I read this quote a while ago for a class, & later had to write an interpretation of it..1st thought after was reading it was "why does the greatest basketball player the world has ever seen say a quote as simple as this?".. B/c thru his minds eye, there is more than meets the eye! Here my interpretation.


The definition of expectancy is to look forward to; regard as likely to happen;  to have have hope in something happening. All in all it is the believed outcome of a goal being accomplished & its likeliness to be obtain by an individual. It is grounded in what one believes to be capable or probable of happening. What ever you want to do, you have to make the room in your mind to do it. If you believe your limits are limitless, your limited to your limitlessness! Sound elementary but to perform something a task you have to first  believe you can do it. What you know to be true about yourself & your ability controls the level of your expectation, and your level of expectation controls how high you set a bar. The boundaries you place on what you believe you can do, effect what you expect yourself to do, which gives an idea to what you will do, positive  or negative. Raise the level of your belief in what can happen and  everything else will fall along. 
     
     So why does one of the greatest basketball players in history feel intrigued enough to mention a quote as basic as this well, your beliefs are influence by a number of things in your environment. We are affected socially physically spiritually, financially, and emotionally amongst other things such as; your passion, desire, but mainly your exposure. Many of us have unknowingly low expectations of ourselves some from ignorance and some a deliberate  attempts to protect ourselves. Ignorance is  simply not to ignore or not to know, it must be discovered and understood before it  can be removed. Ignorance is powerless to remove itself neither will  it pass away of in and itself. It only disperses from the introduction of  knowledge. Therefore we only know what we are exposed to and we are  exposed to what our environment shows us. We only expect as much  as  our eyes can see, or what has been told to us. Its a tendency  to only believe the things that are tangible. Our imagination stems from our environment therefore naturally we only dream what our reality shows us. To imagine anything greater  to occur  is rare due to mundane routines & lack of exposure. We  don’t think outside the box because we only know whats inside the  box. Ultimately your level of exposure determines your level of  expectancy. Many people dont know therefore expect less & don't demand what they could if they did know
     Lastly some people have quit expecting great things because they  might have experience disappointment. In order to avoid getting their  hopes up and getting let down they don’t expect anything great to happen. A form of pessimism, which avoids the hurt of failure in all, by not expecting nothing at all, so it would be a "win-win situation" when any gain is considered success and any failure is considered neutral.  They consider this a safe zone. They do enough just to get by hoping to prevent the intense discomfort that’s associated with expecting too  much & being disappointed.
     So I believe that this charge that the  greatest basketball player the world has known is meant to be taken to  heart, literally to the extreme, applied to one’s life and lived by & on a day to day basis in all aspects of our lives. I don’t believe he  achieved what he achieved by taking quotes as simply as what it  implies but he used it to allow his imagination to supersede his reality until his dreams came true.

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

What is LOVE? (old)



1st off i want to say that i know this is a controversial and touchy topic, my intent is not too offend anyone but if being that this happens i apologize in advance, if we can't help each other get an understanding then we will simply agree to disagree, i would love to hear you opinions question comments or whatever you believe to be true & Just remember that... I love you!!!

The notoriously infamous affectionate vastly interpretational question..This one question no one seems to have an answer for, no one seems to concretely define. The question that will leave you lost in past emotions, in future expectation & current ecstasy! Ya know i wonder why this question is so open to everyones view? & why that view is so hazy even distorted? (another episode)..well hopefully in this short excerpt we can get some clarity...

What is Love? Love is pain, love is passion, love is sacrifice, love is a strong connection, love is unconditional! Many are correct these are all characteristics of Love & how they can make one feel & what they can make one do, but not quite love itself. Given the time & asking the right question these definitions will contradict themselves when placed in a broad category such as love directed toward certain people. Then we end in a conclusion that just stats there are many different types of Love. Well how do you know which Love it is that you are Loving? How do you know you love someone? When someone says i Love you what does it really mean? So is there a difference in Loving someone & being in Love? Whats the difference between brotherly motherly friendship spouse & regular love? If we had one universal/general definition i believe it would change people's perception on well,..everything! Love would not be some nebulous thing but something we can knowingly pursue after & know that we have achieved it! 

When people try to focus in on love its very difficult; when you can't describe a thought, you use a emotion, when you can't describe an emotion you use a feeling, when you can't describe a feeling you use an action. I believe Love is blatantly an action and an attitude, a verb, not an emotion nor a feeling, but a barrage of characteristics one shows towards someone. Here me out ,these characteristic summed up in doing what is in best interest for that person. Love strictly is, & does. Love shouldn't change period. When people say I love you they are merely saying i emotion you, i affection you or have adoration towards you but the thing about that emotions change and are affected upon circumstances..! Thats why some Love with all their heart today & tomorrow they in someone elses face, thats how you fall in & out of love: people can't control love b/c likewise we cant control our emotions (but we can control what we do), so they say love is blind..its blind b/c it doesnt see, its to busy feeling! 

So why is this so important? for many reasons (once again another episode)...so What is my definition of Love? well i cant take credit for my definition b/c i stole it! I once read it in The Greatest book i have ever read in my LIFE!, that love is..God (1 John 4v8). God is love, It doesnt say God has love, will love, can love, or even does love-It says God IS love. Its the very make-up of his character who he is, what he does! God is not changing. He is the same today as he was yesterday & forever more thats pretty concrete to me! So to know God is to know love!  1 Corinthians 13v4-7 describe key characteristics of Love & ultimately God http://bit.ly/erSb8c There are 2 different kinds of love: its either Real Love or Not Love! simple & plain. Now i do agree that there are degrees to Love (how fervently you demonstrate you action towards another) but ultimately it has the same origin, we must not get it confused. Because if you have the love of the world the love of the father is not in you..thats word. & dont get it wrong just b/c God is love doesnt mean he can't hate something! To love righteousness is to hate evil..simple put to love God is to hate sin! 

In this post modernistic society every one is open to their own interpretations. We live in a generation where truth can not be discovered, its only what works for you, (so they say) which is why our love is so throwed off. God gave us a command to Love. How can i love if love is a feeling..I can't "have feelings" for my enemies, yet if Love is a choice/an action, then i can choose to Love my enemies, i can choose to show these characteristics! 

Love is SO broad i can literally write a book on it but i'd rather you just read the one thats already written about the greatest love of all! Romans 5v8 but God commended his love toward us that even while we were yet his enemies he died for us! so i pray along w/ others that you will be rooted and grounded in true love, & will be able to comprehend with all of God's family how long, how wide, how deep and how high the love of Christ is, which passes all understanding, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God!

Peace! & much love to ya!

Noteworthy: Cam Newton!

...Noteworthy simply means something worthy of attention..therefore:
         Sitting in my hotel room eating KFC after a disappointing loss, my teammate is anxious to find the remote. Me personally idk exactly what the hype is all about but upon discovering it, he quickly scans the channels looking for the BCS game Auburn vs Oregon. Finding the station and turning to it, we catch the last few second of the game where the kicker wins the game & everyone celebrates! Honestly im like "ok can you change the channel now" lol but i continue to eat my biscuit chicken & parfait as my teammates sits 2inches away from the screen! Confetti is flying everywhere fans going crazy...& my mind gets to wondering amongst other things..but thats another episode! To get to the point Cam Newton gets up for an interview. Quietly & literally thinking to myself & God i say: "How does that happen? How does someone go from absolutely nothing to practically running the world seeminglessly over night? Like that has to be nothing but God!"..so i looked up in frantic expectation to see who he credits....
         Now before i go any further, i recently started hearing Cam Newton name this year all around alabama, i mean where-ever i went! Not till a couple of weeks ago did i realize that i already knew him in high school..He played for a rival high school basketball team West Lake, which members of our team knew & hung out with including Cam..to my surprise, astounded that this is the same lil boi who used to sit over my homeboi house playin cards, the same kid wit the nappy fro lol and the same lanky dude who played ball! He was just a guy from the block, same part of town now is practically running the nation, is a house hold name & is the president of alabama lol! I think thats absolutely incredible! & like i said it cant be anything but God!
         ......so back to the hotel & my fried chicken...the reporter ask how would you describe the journey you took to get here...pause....i sat my biscuits down & completely tuned in, Wow..what a question seemed like the answer took forever to come out..a million thoughts rushed in my head but the only 1 i could focus in on is "What the HECK is he bout to say" lol......."its just a God thing..im just his instrument..he is using me on a consist basis...to extend his word!!..A Prime Example!!!!!!.....turn something Bad into something GREAT!!!" I WAS DUNNNN!! ya hear me!! That encouraged me so much because i know that God will go thru great extents, use anyone he chooses in anyway he chooses to get Glory! & whats crazy is that He wants to do it in my life..& what even crazier is that He wants to do it in yours also!!! This was an example of something like a modern day JOSEPH "my favorite story in the bible btw" but truth is we are coming into a time where God will be using DAVIDS people after Gods own heart, not riches fame or fortune but those who want God 2b Glorified in everything! We are all instruments & our lives are songs..do they make Gods Ipod? I wrote all this to simply say God is in control he sets up kings and tears down nations, live to please him in all that you do & i promise..no He promises that your eyes have not seen nor your ears heard or even entered into the heart of man what God has planned for those who LOVE HIM!!

Peace! & Much Love 2ya

Monday, January 3, 2011

FRIENDS??!!! How many of us have them? Who needs them ne way??

-So a friend ask me a question today..What are friends for anyways?..I thought this was a very beautiful question..a question i sometimes look for the answer to but never really spent time thinking about but something God deals with me about..a lot! Well this is my reponse typed & copied str8 from my phone.. let me know what ya think







Man! Great question!!! Inspired a lot of thought! Im not sure where to begin but we NEED friends for alot of reasons...that in which i am still learning about b/c truthfully i can be or am, one of the most antisocial persons you will ever meet! Its not that im not good with people its just i dont like dealing with people its been 1 of my biggest struggles since being saved.. I can't really think of a true friend that i have ever had besides my brothers, b/c the way i see it if they were true friends we would still be friends..but to answer your question: We need friends to have some1 to relate with & share experiences with. What good is life if you live it alone? what good is success if its by yourself, even in trouble & disappointment a friend is there to share your burden, if not relieve it, likewise encourage you, help pick you up when you have fallen, help hold you up to keep you from stumbling, & help stand you up to help you walk straight! A friend is your ally acompliss asset and advantage! In a fight they got ya back, in a struggle they give you they shoulder, when you down they give you there hand..Friends are siblings from another mother but the same FATHER (God) ya kno..Friends are for growth..they show you who you are, used to be & supposed to be, they help you see when you can't see, help you understand when you can't reach, help you make sense of things when you can't think, and if they can't do either then its always good to know you are not alone and got some1 there regardless..comfort, advice, and laughter friends offer, a friend sacrifices like a martyr...a friend is someone who understands your past believes in your future & accepts you for who you are but hopes with their heart to see you better than where you are, we cant choose our family but we can our friends which is why i think this is so important because ultimately our friends are a representation of ourselves & who we are, they are bonds we make with soul mates & fit us like a missing puzzle piece! They make our dreams more vivid our passions more raging, our pursuits more worthwhile and our life more worth living..TRUE friends are apart of you, that if you dont have them u cant do what you gotta do..you wont make it to where you are suppose to go because they have somethin you need & vice versa...
-i stopped right there realizing i was getting long winded & told her we can talk about it later lol..likewise we can too tell me what you think world!

Peace! & Much Love 2ya