Monday, January 3, 2011

FRIENDS??!!! How many of us have them? Who needs them ne way??

-So a friend ask me a question today..What are friends for anyways?..I thought this was a very beautiful question..a question i sometimes look for the answer to but never really spent time thinking about but something God deals with me about..a lot! Well this is my reponse typed & copied str8 from my phone.. let me know what ya think







Man! Great question!!! Inspired a lot of thought! Im not sure where to begin but we NEED friends for alot of reasons...that in which i am still learning about b/c truthfully i can be or am, one of the most antisocial persons you will ever meet! Its not that im not good with people its just i dont like dealing with people its been 1 of my biggest struggles since being saved.. I can't really think of a true friend that i have ever had besides my brothers, b/c the way i see it if they were true friends we would still be friends..but to answer your question: We need friends to have some1 to relate with & share experiences with. What good is life if you live it alone? what good is success if its by yourself, even in trouble & disappointment a friend is there to share your burden, if not relieve it, likewise encourage you, help pick you up when you have fallen, help hold you up to keep you from stumbling, & help stand you up to help you walk straight! A friend is your ally acompliss asset and advantage! In a fight they got ya back, in a struggle they give you they shoulder, when you down they give you there hand..Friends are siblings from another mother but the same FATHER (God) ya kno..Friends are for growth..they show you who you are, used to be & supposed to be, they help you see when you can't see, help you understand when you can't reach, help you make sense of things when you can't think, and if they can't do either then its always good to know you are not alone and got some1 there regardless..comfort, advice, and laughter friends offer, a friend sacrifices like a martyr...a friend is someone who understands your past believes in your future & accepts you for who you are but hopes with their heart to see you better than where you are, we cant choose our family but we can our friends which is why i think this is so important because ultimately our friends are a representation of ourselves & who we are, they are bonds we make with soul mates & fit us like a missing puzzle piece! They make our dreams more vivid our passions more raging, our pursuits more worthwhile and our life more worth living..TRUE friends are apart of you, that if you dont have them u cant do what you gotta do..you wont make it to where you are suppose to go because they have somethin you need & vice versa...
-i stopped right there realizing i was getting long winded & told her we can talk about it later lol..likewise we can too tell me what you think world!

Peace! & Much Love 2ya

3 comments:

  1. well i think you've exhausted every possible answer of what friends are for in one rediculously long run-on sentence. lol! but seriously, you hit it right on the head. so rather than embarrassing myself by trying to come up with another answer, i'll just give you a head nod of agreement and keep it moving. lol. great answer.

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  2. Lol! yea..i know, grammar is not my strong suit lets just be happy i can read!! i prefer to type how i talk..let me know if its too illegible i can get a publicist to go over it & re-type it...ne way preciate it! but questions like these are interpretational, its however you feel i would like to know you thoughts!

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  3. TRUE TRUE and TRUE AGAIN! Every person who I actually consider my friend had these qualities. Friends help you keep your sanity! I don't I would be insane if I didn't have some of my firends to get me through alot of situations I've been through and choices I had to make in my life.

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